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Encourage your child to take up a
hobby or sport that they will enjoy them to let
loose and have fun not something too competitive. |
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Art projects are particularly good
for giving young children a chance to create and be
independent at the same time. |
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Children are not born
knowing what is acceptable and unacceptable. They
watch how you behave and how you treat them and
others. |
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Parents fears for their
children safety, if extreme, can have an adverse
effect on their children confidence and
self-esteem. |
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As a parent, you are
responsible for correcting and guiding your child.
But how you express your corrective guidance makes
all the difference in how your child receives it. |
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Motivate your children
with positive reinforcement, help them set realistic
goals and have attainable expectations for your
child. |
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Never tell a child that he
is bad. That tears at his self-esteem. Help your
child recognize that it isn't that you do not like
him, but it is his behavior that you are unwilling
to tolerate. |
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Make simple rules for your
child. Start with a few "things we do and don't do."
Discuss them with your child. |
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If you feel that your
child's behavior is beginning to get out of control,
"nip it in the bud" by distracting your child's
attention onto a positive activity or game. |
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Words hurt, too. Try to
avoid yelling at your children in anger. Do not put
down your children. If they break a rule, tell them
what they did wrong and why that makes you angry. Be
angry at what they did, NOT at who they are. |
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Establish a reliable
routine. A clear and consistent routine helps a
child feel safe and secure. Clear-cut rules help a
child learn what is right and wrong. Be consistent! |
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If you say "no" to your
child, make sure you both understand what that means
and keep to the rule. Then act quickly (seconds),
firmly and safely when it is challenged. Carry out
any threatened punishment. Do not yell. Your child
wants to know that your "no" means no. |